Victoria

I’m Victoria. 35, divorced, solicitor and apparently quite intimidating. I’ve been told that last one more than once.

I live in London and work in acquisitions, so I spend most of my week negotiating, making decisions and telling people no. I’m very good at all three.

I’m confident, quite particular and I usually know what I want. I have a dry sense of humour, very little patience for showing off and a bad habit of correcting people when I know I’m right. Which is often, obviously.

I’ve always been naturally dominant with men. It isn’t something I switch on for effect, I just genuinely enjoy being the one in control. I like setting the pace, giving instructions and seeing whether somebody can actually follow them. A man who can hand over a little control without losing his confidence will get my attention very quickly.

That said, I’m not looking for someone who just agrees with everything I say. I still want personality. Make me laugh. Have opinions. Keep me interested. Just know when it’s time to stop arguing and do as you’re told. 😉

I can be demanding, but I’m also very attentive when somebody deserves it. I notice effort. I notice manners. And I definitely notice when someone is trying too hard.

If you want to talk to me, come and say hello.

I’ll take it from there.